What are your views on Spiritual Matters


This is a period of frantic writing for me.

I love reading about my couples’ stories. How they met, fell in love ?  When they decided they wanted to get married ?  Where and how did the proposal of marriage take place ? What do they love about each other ? Do they share hobbies ? What subjects are conflictual ? What strenghts do they bring to their relationship ? What weaknesses ?

Some are funny , some are busy and give one word answers, some are shy, some are smart and cutting edge and some are kookey and spiritual.

I’m writing a ceremony for a very spiritual couple  at the moment and  I’m  surfing the net  for an appropriate  reading about Love .

I happen on this one by

― Thích Nhất Hạnh

“Through my love for you I want to express my love for the whole cosmos, the whole of humanity and all beings. By living with you I want to learn to love everyone and all species. If I succeed in loving you, I will be able to love everyone and all species on Earth….This is the real message of Love.”

So I’m reading this and copying and pasting it . Then translating it into french ( bi-lingual ceremony) and all this time my cat Kenya, is miaowing at my side wanting attention! I ignore her and get on with work. This cat does NOT give up! She has the most annoying high pitched, whining  miaow and she keeps it up  long enough to get  me irritated ……I am just about to boot her outside with an exasperated huff when I realise that I’m writing about loving all the species on the earth!

I pick Kenya up and give her 5 mins LOVE ( which I enjoy too) and she leaves me alone and hops onto her chair purring.

Just a bit of  LOVE  transforms our relationships with those around us.

What are your views on « Spiritual Matters ? » if any ?

 I’d like to share one of my groom’s answers with you (with his permission)

” I believe we are all here for a reason, and that everything happens for a reason. I believe we are beings of infinite potential and possibility. I believe our soul/spirit is eternal, it always has been and always will be. I believe that the purpose of life is to remember who we are and why we are here. I believe this is a pivotal point in history – a time where never before has “the system” been laid so bare for all to see. The darkness that we see  throughout the world today is providing humanity and our collective consciousness  with a huge opportunity to turn things around and bring us back to where we ought to be – living in harmony with the Earth and each other. The light will ultimately shine through and illuminate the dark. I believe we are under-going a shift in consciousness and that we are part of a spiritual evolution. It’s a very exciting time to be alive. I believe that love conquers all and love is the answer to everything.” 

This was today’s bride’s response to this question. (With her permission)

” I’m agnostic.  I feel like there is some power or reason behind things. I think people are intrinsically good and we should strive to be good and kind.  I like elements of each religion and the wisdom of some of their stories. At different times, I like thinking that my life is as insignificant as a tiny wave in the ocean, but at other times that makes me sad and I find it comforting that our actions have consequences and we are all a link in a long chain.”

I am so happy to know that young people are not pessimistic about the world we are going to leave them…….Have a nice day .FUN